How Do You Want to Feel? A question to shape your life and space

𝑯𝒐𝒘 𝒅𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍?

This question may surprise you; you might wonder what it has to do with luxury nursery design.

 

When you approach us to design your nursery, playroom, or child’s bedroom, the journey begins with an interior design consultation, even if you already have a clear vision of what you want.

 

During these consultations, I ask questions that might seem unrelated to design. But what I’m really doing is gaining insight into you—your personality, lifestyle, inspirations, and even your hopes for the future. Because interior design isn’t just about how a space looks; it’s about how it feels. And how we feel directly affects how we function.

 

One of the most important questions I ask is: “𝐻𝑜𝑤 𝑑𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑎𝑛𝑡 𝑡𝑜 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙 𝑖𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑠𝑝𝑎𝑐𝑒?”

 

Over the years, the answers I’ve received have been profound: peaceful, serene, happy, nostalgic, safe, wowed. Your answer informs everything; colours, textures, furniture, and decorative elements. It’s about aligning the aesthetics and layout with the emotions you want to evoke.

 

You and your newborn will spend countless precious moments in the nursery. We want those memories of early parenthood- and your child’s earliest experiences- to be grounded in security, love, and joy.

But today, this isn’t about designing a luxury space for your baby. I want to gift you this question—a question that has helped me navigate many of life’s hurdles: “𝐻𝑜𝑤 𝑑𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑎𝑛𝑡 𝑡𝑜 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙?”

 

Ask it at the start of your day, your month, or your next project. Ask it as you begin a relationship, navigate parenthood, or make an important decision.

 

Our world is obsessed with aesthetics—how things look often takes priority. And while beauty has its place, how you feel is what truly defines your world.

 

After all, you are the only person who gets to fully experience your life.

 

So, how do you want to feel?

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